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We all have a path, a destiny to fulfill. Each and every one of us.

For me, love was always at the center of that path.

“To help people love themselves more”, was my 11 year old self answering from my deepest heart.

Over time, that focus of love became centered around women and the healing of their inner world such that it became a liberation and empowerment tool they could rely on to build the life they dreamed of living.

I too have struggled with love, Self Love and with the love of others.

I have been married and divorced, more than once. I have felt the devastation, the pain and the grief, but like so many of us, I have been determined to stand and rise into something better.

I will tell you that when you follow the path of healing your inner world, the rise always follows. In small ways and in big ways.

In my last divorce, the love of my life asked me for a divorce. At times, I thought I would dissolve into a million pieces. At others, I felt the strength of my own love and feminine power lift me up and hold me steady.

I discovered I was rising to meet my true self, the one who always loved me, no matter what I was doing, or who I was being. She was the one who was there, offering love, strength, support and guidance, leading me to something better.

For so many years, I couldn’t find her. In truth, I wasn’t looking for her–and if she did show up, I quickly silenced her.

I was on a mission to prove that I was lovable and nothing was going to stop me doing that. I was determined to make them see that I was beautiful, powerful and worth gloriously cherishing and honouring.

The desire to be seen in this way led me to choose men who I could prove this to, and from the beginning to the end of those relationships, I did just that. . . spent my time trying to show I was worth their adoration, love and attention.

I could say I failed miserably, and I wouldn’t be wrong.

But I knew I was learning how to break free, even though it was so painfully slow. Then suddenly, at the darkest moment, a light shone through and with it came my breakthrough.

I saw the truth, the big picture of my marriages,
my divorces and WHY I had married. I realized that in all the years of trying to prove my worth to another, I was actually trying to prove my worth to myself.

This caused a cosmic shift in my awareness.

I now knew that I had all along been fighting for myself. But in a way that brought me immense pain. I also knew I didn’t want to or need to do that any more.

This realization was one of those magical moments where time seems to come to a standstill and you feel as if you are one with all that is.

I mean I had been pursuing love SO THAT I could be seen as lovable for almost all of my adult life. This unconscious drive had run my life for years and I had been blind to it!

I realized that I needed a transformational shift at the core. I decided to place a Self Love Filter on my thinking. Once I welcomed in that shift, everything changed.

I saw the truth shining back at me in a way that was profound. Love, Freedom and Self Worth no longer became words I wanted to believe in. They became my truth.

It became easy to walk the path home.

And suddenly, the pattern of trying to prove myself and my worth to others diminished and fell away from my way of being.

And today. . .
The inner noise and the chatter, the over trying, the fixing, the apologizing, the worrying. . . it doesn’t have a hold anymore. If it comes in for a moment or two, it doesn’t stay. As if it doesn’t have a home in me any more.

Practicing Self Love and calling on the energy of standing in my Feminine Power has been a huge quantum, LIFE CHANGING leap into freedom and peace for me.

And the best part, I get to watch the results this way of being is bringing into my life.

I am happy in my self.
I feel my value.
I am reaching higher than I ever have before.
I believe in myself.
I let go and let Love.
I ask and I receive.
I trust the path ahead.

I’ve found my way home.

I learned the hard way, but you don’t have to take the long and painful route that I did. You can use what I have learned to rise and break free with grace and dignity much more quickly. You can gain the perspective it took me years to gain. . . instead of letting your divorce break your heart, you can use your divorce as a way to break open your heart.

Shine the light on your truth, heal your inner world, and become the best version of yourself.

I can tell you confidently that if you are facing a difficult divorce, it’s TIME to give yourself the love you’ve been asking for from others.

Love is still the answer. But it’s being asked to come from YOU to YOU.

You only need Small Shifts. Small Steps.

These small shifts and steps create real change within you and suddenly, you will see yourself rebuilding your world and living a new and better life- on your terms.

This better life IS calling you home to your most beautiful, powerful self.

It is ready and waiting for you to shift and step into.

Kaeleya xo

Rise up and move through your divorce with grace and dignity.

Kaeleya’s Training and Qualifications

Certified Astrologer with Rebecca Gordon Astrology, Astrocartography with Helena Woods, Sacred Depths Coaching Certification, Animal Reiki Level 1&2 with Kathleen Prasad, Reiki Level 3 with Frans Steine, Shaman HeartSong Apprentice Journey, Energy Healing Practitioner with Hands on Healing Institute, 22 years of mentorship with Metaphysician and Astrologer Robert Aiken, Metaphysics Practitioner with ICMT since 2010, Tree and Land Channel since 2002, Multidimensional Interspecies Communication since 1992, Telepathic and Hands On Energy Healing training since age 11, BA Metaphysics, currently on track to complete Masters in Metaphysics.