About Kaeleya
For me, love was always at the center of that path. “To help people love themselves more”, was my 11 year-old self’s deepest desire.
As I stepped into my purpose, the focus on Self Love became centered around helping women heal their inner world. I discovered that a well laid path to self love created a powerful transformational shift from inner pain to inner peace that my clients could rely on.
No matter the hour, or how hard things were, their own self love was always there, like a lighthouse guiding them to peace and their feminine power.
A power they used to rebuild the life they dreamed of living… More peace, trust and joy. Less angst, worry and disappointment.
I too have struggled with the loss of love. I’ve been married and divorced, more than once. I’ve felt the devastation, pain and grief. But like so many of us, I’ve been determined to rise into something better, despite the pain.
I will tell you that when you go on the journey of healing your inner world and walk the path to Self Love, you will always rise. You will always be met with Light, even on the darkest of nights.
In my last divorce, the love of my life asked me for a divorce. At times, I thought I would dissolve into a million pieces. At others, I felt the strength of my own love and feminine power lift me up and hold me steady.
I discovered I was rising to meet my true self, the one who always loved me no matter what I was doing or who I was being. She was the one who was there, offering love, strength, support and guidance, leading me to something better.
For many years I couldn’t find her. In truth, I wasn’t looking for her–and if she did show up, I quickly silenced her.
I was on a mission to prove that I was lovable, determined to make ‘them’ see me as beautiful, powerful and worth gloriously cherishing and honouring. The desire to be seen in this way led me to choose men I could prove this to. From the beginning to the end of those relationships I did just that… tried to show I was worth their adoration, love and attention.
I could say I failed miserably, and I wouldn’t be wrong. But I knew I was learning how to break free and break open. I saw the truth, the big picture of my marriages, my divorces and WHY I had married. I realized that in all the years of trying to prove my worth to another, I was actually trying to prove my worth to myself.
This caused a cosmic shift in my awareness.
I had been fighting for myself all along. But in a way that brought me immense pain. I had been pursuing love SO THAT I could be seen as lovable for almost all of my adult life. This unconscious drive had run my life for years and I had been blind to it!
I needed a transformational shift. I decided to place a Self Love Filter on my thinking. Finally, I saw the truth shining back at me in a way that was profound. Love, Freedom and Self Worth no longer became words I wanted to believe in. They became my truth.
It became easy to walk the path home. The pattern of trying to prove myself and my worth to others fell away from my way of being.
Today, the inner noise and chatter, the over trying, the fixing, the apologizing, the worrying… it doesn’t have a hold anymore. If it comes for a moment, it doesn’t stay. It doesn’t have a home in me anymore.
Practicing Self Love and calling on the energy of standing in my Feminine Power has been a huge quantum, LIFE CHANGING leap into freedom and peace for me.
The best part? I get to watch the results this way of being has brought into my life.
I am happy in myself.
I feel my value.
I am reaching higher than I ever have before.
I believe in myself.
I let go and let Love.
I ask and I receive.
I trust the path ahead.
I’ve found my way home and I learned the hard way. But you don’t have to take the long and painful route that I did. You can use what I’ve learned to rise and break free with grace and dignity much more quickly. You can gain the perspective it took me years to gain. Instead of letting your divorce break your heart, you can use your divorce to break open your heart.
Shine the light on your truth, heal your inner world and become the best version of yourself.
I can tell you confidently that if you are facing a difficult divorce, it’s TIME to give yourself the love you’ve been asking for from others. Love is still the answer. But it’s being asked to come from YOU to YOU.
You only need small shifts. Small steps to come home.
These create real change within you and you’ll see yourself rebuilding your world and living a new, better life on your terms.
This better life IS calling you home to your most beautiful, powerful self. It’s ready and waiting for you to shift and step into.
Kaeleya xo
A step by step guide to rise up and reclaim your power when your partner asks for a divorce.
A step by step guide to rise up and reclaim your power when your partner asks for a divorce.
Kaeleya’s Training and Qualifications
Certified Astrologer with Rebecca Gordon Astrology, Astrocartography with Helena Woods, Sacred Depths Coaching Certification, Animal Reiki Level 1&2 with Kathleen Prasad, Reiki Level 3 with Frans Steine, Shaman HeartSong Apprentice Journey, Energy Healing Practitioner with Hands on Healing Institute, 22 years of mentorship with Metaphysician and Astrologer Robert Aiken, Metaphysics Practitioner with ICMT since 2010, Tree and Land Channel since 2002, Multidimensional Interspecies Communication since 1992, Telepathic and Hands On Energy Healing training since age 11, BA Metaphysics, currently on track to complete Masters in Metaphysics.